Wedding Vows

A part of me rests with you in a way that Ive never felt before. I believe it’s because you trust nature and are as aligned with it as I know you to be. It means I can rest in the knowing that you’re answering to the deepest part of yourself that you can feel. I trust your connection to nature and your relationship with God.… read more

OneTaste Audio: How I got the Sex Life I Wanted

Live from London September 24th, 2015 before the Men’s Course that weekend. We had a blast.


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OneTaste Audio: A Man’s Guide to Speaking Woman

Here’s the audio from a lecture I recently gave before the Men’s Course on what Orgasm taught me about speaking the language of the feminine. Recorded at OneTaste NYC on 6/11/15.


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What is Power?


I was thinking today about this question – “What is power?” I know that on some level we all have the same potential to access it, and yet there does seem to be a difference in how different people relate to it, use it (are used by it, even) etc. Some people say things and they fall completely flat. Others people listen to and the universe arranges around their words completely effortlessly.… read more

OneTaste Audio: How I Learned About Love (from Orgasm)

Here’s the audio from a lecture I recently gave on what Orgasm taught me about love. Recorded at OneTaste NYC on 3/4/15.


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What’s in a container?

Practice containers like OM have been places where I have had some of most painful experiences of my entire life – and I am grateful at the work I did to cultivate those containers for when I did let go and allow myself to feel those things I knew that I could fully surrender into the experience. That’s freedom I lay at the feet of a very long history of deliberate container holding.… read more

Something New…

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Hey OM Hub. My name is Eli and I OM. For the last 6+ years, almost every day I OM. I put a finger on a clitoris and stroke it. For me. In a connected way. It has changed me in both relatable and unspeakable ways. I shared at an I OM meeting tonight that OM has helped me to open my heart in spots where I would normally withhold myself.… read more


On Thanksgiving I was with a bunch of my closest friends and we did that thing where everybody goes around and says what they’re grateful for. I thought about it as my turn approached and took a general accounting of my life. A few years ago, that mental “are my bases covered?” question would usually look like a rundown of a checklist including certain account balances, whether my car was clean, oil change recently done?, basically a bunch of regular, practical life concerns.… read more

The dumb layer


Ok this is going to be quick and dirty.

I just finished a session with a client who keeps getting trapped in front of men’s dumb layer. That’s what I called it today in our session right before I told her I was going to write a blog about it.

What is the dumb layer? It’s the foggy virus that takes over our psyches when a makeout is looming more

Improv and Venture Capital

In my life I have had the good fortune of being exposed to many great teachers and schools of thought. Two of the best lessons I’ve learned intersect at a fascinating juncture. They are improv acting and venture capital.

A few years ago, I was in an improv class with a brilliant teacher. She was teaching us about offers. In improv, an offer is simply the moment when you see an opening in a scene taking place that you could fit inside of.… read more